Feb
No, there is nothing wrong with masturbating, it is natural and healthy.
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masturbating isn’t only not wrong, it's a good idea. by masturbating you can relax and achieve sexual release without risking STIs or pregnancy. it doesn't give you hairy palms, it doesn't make you go blind. nowhere in any religious text that i know does it explicitly forbid masturbation; and even in Genesis it implicitly forbids it only for men (it's a “waste of seed”, but masturbation doesn't make women ovulate).
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Masturbating is perfectly normal. Everybody has done it and still does it no matter what they state. You could be sitting on a bus and I guarentee everybody on that bus masturbates. Lol. There's totally nothing wrong with it. And it's actually superior, most people can please themselves more than having someone else do it for you. Lol. And it spares you from unwanted pregnancy and STD's. It's normal, healthy, and I find to be actually good for you.♥
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It's perfectly OK and right.
God isn't going to punish you for masturbating. It's never happened to me, and here's a conservative estimate of the number of times I've masturbated to orgasm in my life.
1973 to 1981, 7 per day = 20440
1981 to 1997, 2.5 per day = 14600
1997 to 2008, 10 per week = 5720
Total to date = 40760 orgasms in 36 yrs
If you and your religion are “against masturbation”, then you and your religion are against being human. Period.
Learn what being *human* actually is and judge yourself against humanity itself, not against misinterpreted legends.
The only reference to masturbation in the Bible is the story of Onan, and the only reason he was condemned for masturbating is, it was his responsibility in that time and place to dad some kids by his dead brother's childless widow, but he “spilled his seed on the ground” instead of having sex with his brother's woman.
Onan's “sin” wasn't masturbation… it was his refusal of a social obligation (God's *command*, supposedly) to continue his family's genes.
Why is it such a taboo? That part's easy: a lot of people are scared to death by the idea of anyone (especially very young children) having the slightest sexual awareness at all outside of marriage… and they've been teaching that fear to their kids for generations beyond counting. Their fears are nothing more than superstitions, but hey, organized religion is all *about* passing a society's superstitions through the generations.
I don't suppose you've ever been permitted to learn the truth about all the people that masturbate… but it might interest you to know that infants masturbate (often to orgasm if they do it at all and - rarely - even during the last week or two before they're born)… that by the age of 12, almost 1/3 of all girls have been masturbating to orgasm at least occasionally for half their lives or more… that at age 15 it's 2/3 of them who are doing it regularly (many of those are doing it more than once a day)… or that by the age of 20, more than 80% of women are doing the same - regardless of whether they've ever had intercourse. Even very old people do it.
Chances are only about one in 30 that your *parents* don't masturbate.
Tips? Well, I can't tell you each step there is to have an orgasm… each girl and woman is different, and it would take way longer for me to type it all out than it would for you to give yourself one… but one thing you can do to find out is check out these webpages:
http://www.clitical.com/female-masturbat…
http://www.clitical.com/female-masturbat…
Read the pages all the way through, and try some of the things suggested. Take your time (it might take a whole afternoon the first time), and just enjoy learning what feels ideal for you. Sooner or later, you'll have an orgasm in one or more of these ways, and they get better each time if you're one of those lucky girls who can have them again and again.
Then you'll know what one is and how to have one, for sure.
An orgasm is all the things you feel and all the things that happen with your body at the peak of sexual arousal and pleasure. It's a reflex we're all born with (just like knee jerks and sneezes) that our bodies have in response to sexual stimulation. You’ll *definitely* know when you have one. There's nothing else anywhere in human experience that feels that way.
It can take a girl or woman anywhere from a few seconds to a couple of hours to reach orgasm. Both of these are pretty uncommon but perfectly normal, and anything in between is just fine… and most can get there in much less than 10 minutes when they masturbate.
Just before orgasm, you might have a feeling a bit like you have to pee, but it's not quite the same, and when your orgasm first happens, there'll be a very strong (sometimes intense and *powerful*), warm and sometimes tingly feeling that spreads from your clitoris to your vagina and then through your whole lower body. Then very swiftly your clitoris, your vagina, your crotch muscles and your butt-hole will squeeze and pulse a few times while that feeling spreads all over you.
During all this, your heart will beat *very* quickly, your toes will probably curl, you might feel like you need to hold your breath or like you have to breathe really fast, your body will want to tense up and might jerk or shake or shiver, and you might make some noises (grunts, gasps, groans or cries) that you can't really control. You might “squirt” or “ejaculate” a lot of fluid from your urethra (don't worry, it's not pee). The physical and emotional pleasure that you'll feel everywhere at the same time is just about the ideal feeling a human body can have.
(Everything you “might” feel or do above isn't always going to happen… some orgasms are much less overwhelming than just *very* pleasureable.)
As that feeling becomes more gentle and starts to go away (after maybe 5 to 20 seconds), your whole body will start to rest, your skin will flush pinker (especially over your chest) and you might feel sort of like having a nap… or like just lying there and letting your mind drift… or even like doing it again (and again… etc) right away.
It's not often, but it *can* happen sometimes that there'll be no interruption at all between several orgasms in a row, and it can feel like one single orgasm… intense physical pleasure and whole-body tension and release that can last anywhere from 30 or 40 seconds to several minutes.
Have fun with it and don't worry. Masturbation is having sex with the only person you'll ever meet who knows *exactly* what you feel and what you like, even if that changes every second. It's normal and healthy, learning what pleases you sexually is good for you, and when it comes to having sex with the one you *want*, you'll be able to tell them (or to show them if you like) the things you like ideal.
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masturbating is never wrong. Many people do it. Masturbating is to give yourself pleasure. i'd state that it is a lot safer than the real thing for now!
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OF COURSE NOT!!! Anyone that tells you otherwise is either lying or a puritan fundamentalist that’s also lying.
Enjoy masturbation. It's perfectly natural. Expand your horizons.
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No it's not wrong! It's normal and relieves stress and tension and it's good for you. And of course it feels good.
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no its normal and don’t believe what religion's tell you either!
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the guy with the long answer wants to be chosen as best answer lolz
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no way its great x
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of course not!!