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I feel really uncomfortable talking to my mother about boys, school, my period, and bras. Is this wrong? I only want serious answers. Whenever she tries to talk to me, I ignore her. My sister is 18 and just started dating last year. I go to a private school, so no one really dates. I hate talking to my mother about my period. It feels so awkward!!!! Please help me! Also, I know how my mom was once my age and all, but she's really embarassing.
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just say you’re fine right now but you are glad that 'if' you didn't need a chat you know she’s there.
This way you’re putting a stop to the conversation you are feeling uncomfortable about but in a nice friendly manor and leaving your mum feel still important as you know she is there anytime,
Speak to your sister about it. maybe she has some tips. she has to have 4 more years experience on this.
Us mums find it hard too though, my daughters are 10 and 9 and are starting sex education this term . i always mention bits as they are getting the begin of boobs and some hair etc but as soon as they cringe i just smile and change the subject. i want them to always have someone they can speak to but i find it embarrassing too.
i never had anyone to speak to. i found out things as i went along. you and my kids are lucky to have someone to turn to, keep that in mind, you might need it one day.
til then i hope you manage to just keep avoiding the chats in a positive way that makes you both happy.
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No you shouldn't feel uncomfortable about it. She's your mother, and she's there for you to talk about anything to. She could really help you comprehend things superior and give you advice if you just give her the chance to. Obviously she loves your life if you wants to speak to you about stuff, so don't blow her off, you might be surprised at how easy it can be to speak to her or how much she could help. Just give her a chance!
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You shouldn't be, your mom went through all of this too! She’s probably the ideal person you can speak to about puberty and such.. She understands, so if you still feel weird talking to her about it, tell her your kind of uncomftorable talking about this, and maybe she has the ability to help you!
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don't worry about it. i am 13 and have the same problem. i dont like talking about it, but i know that it is the ideal thing. and it will feal good to get it out there, and off your chest
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I agree that the best thing is to talk to your Mother. But if you just can't do it, there's a lot of good information online. Just be sure you're looking at a legit site like WebMd. Here's a good article - http://women.webmd.com/tc/normal-menstru…
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I feel the same exact way.Even though im twelve. Hopefully We both will get over it. It is very uncomfortable at first, but soon, my friend stated ” I will be a “pro” soon enough” lol wateva that means. But still. You’re just like any other girl !
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It will get easier. When I was 14, each time I had to bring up my period to my mother, I got humiliated. Now it's like “Mom, I’ve cramps! Leave me alone!” Lol. I'm over it, and you’ll be too.
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I don't speak to my mother about my period, thats my business not hers. I do speak to her about sex and boys…
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heey, yeah im 14 to and the same way .
it's absolutely normal