Mar
Please help im sorry if i sound young because i dont understand. im 16 and still a virgin and so is my boyfriend.
I want to give my boyfriend a b*l*o*w*j*o*b (this is my first time doing something like this) && he wants me to swallow and i decided i will but im afraid if i swallow i'll get a std…
Will i??
or wont i since hes never had a girlfriend and has never done anything with anyone
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You will not catch anything by swallowing it. The gastric acid in your stomach kills everything but let me tell you something, from an old lady. Don't swallow it. All men like that “control of a woman” stuff by swallowing it. Don't start your relationship with doing that. Please, please. please listen I know what I am talking about.Remember, when it comes to sex, your the prize, not him because you're the female. Respect yourself. Don't let these males speak you into anything you’re not comfortable with. Respect yourself.
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Although you are very young, if you’re going to go into a sexual relationship with someone, you should both be tested first. That way, everyone knows for sure because a person can say anything to get you to do what they want.
You just don't sound altogether sure that you even want to do this. If you decide to, don't attempt to swallow the very first time.
Remember, a first sexual experience should be consentual and patient, not urging and begging.
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Your boy friend is an idiot. You're not going to like swallowing because it is very salty and sometimes bitter. I think he’s going to turn you off from giving blow jobs all together.
That lady who commented above me is misinformed you can get an std from swallowing. You could get gonarrhea of the throat. If he has the clap you’ll get it. You can get an std from swallowing just as easy as you would from having sex without a condom. The stomach acid won't kill a virus.
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First of all, guys will lie to get you to perform sex acts. Just because he says you're the first doesn't mean you’re. you won't get stds from swallowing but you can get herpes if he has herpes. If he gives you herpes you'll have massive, nasty blisters on you lips for the rest of your life and you will pass it on to anybody you kiss or give bjs to in the future. Lip herpes & genitil herpes are basically the same and are interchangable.
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You are at no greater risk of getting an STD if you swallow. There is always a bit of lubrication (pre-***, if you like) excreted from the penis when a man gets excited. That would be in your mouth. Therefore, that could give you the STD.
But guys are always turned on by the thought of a woman swallowing. It is your choice if you do or don't. Some like to do it, other girls don't.
And I think I'd be a bit more sure of his herpes status than just, hoping so..lol. Good grief.
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if he hasnt been with anyone then you cant get an std, If you do anything else use a condom
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Well i am guessing you’ve to come in contact with someone that has had a std. So no you won't unless your bf is lieing about boning girls!
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If he’s truly being honest about his sexual history then the chance of you getting a STD is trim, However, from your message you seem unsure that you’re ready to commit to this at all.
If you do decide to commit to this, if he does ejaculate in your mouth then either spit it out or swallow it, don’t allow it to just settle in your mouth, especially if you have open wounds or cuts in your mouth.
STD's are not a god given curse to strike you down. However if you are unsure that your boyfriend is a virgin then you should always take measures to protect yourself. It is your body and don’t let anyone stick anything anywhere you do not concur with. It is your body and therefore it is on your terms. If he gives you a hard time about it then he is a creep and you need to get away from him.
Barrier protection is always a good idea and I have to stress that here as well. If your relationship becomes stronger then ask him to get tested for STD's with you. This can be a bonding activity that can ultimately lead you closer together with trust in each other.
I hope this helps
-Dan
EMT