Oct
Im not ready for a relationship right now. I just had a baby two months ago and had a very rocky relationship with the father that ended about a month ago. So im focusing on my children and work right now. Im not at all ready for a romantic relationship with a man or in the near future. Its going to take me a long time. Anyhow, i have been friends with my ex fiancee for the past 1.5 years. 12 years ago we were engaged to marry but it didnt work out. After ten years, he got divorced and called me out of the blue and apologized for what happened to “us” years ago. I was shocked and also forgiving. We were both a lot younger and immature. We speak to each other maybe once or twice a week as friends. Our relationship is strictly plutonic. We also go out once in a while for lunch or dinner, etc. I’ve no sexual feelings for him at all or any attraction at this time. He makes comments to me all the time like, “you are beautiful” or “dont feel bad about yourself” or “you need to get out sometimes and have fun”.
He has no idea that i contracted herpes (genital) 5 years back. Should i tell him one day or should i just leave it alone? I just want to be sure that he doenst get any funny ideas about our relationship.I dont want to steer him the wrong way. What would you do? The only people that know i have herpes are my doctor(s) and ex boyfriends.
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if you plan to just be friend with him then you shouldn;t be that open to him about it. Or if you decided to finally start a relationship with this man then yes you must tell him before its too late
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if ur just freinds theres no need for him to know.if u decide 2 b sexually wit him than tell him.I feel just like u theres only a couple of people that know i have herps and i would worry if u was to tell him would he tell Report Abuse
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Yes is the best way is to tell him, because if you do have a sexual relationship with him then the next day he has herpes, he will hate you 4ever.
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Of course you should tell him!
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If you dont plan on having a sexual relationship there should be no reason to tell him, unless you want too. Herpes isnt that uncommon and with proper steps and medication you can easily prevent spreading it to someone, im sure you know this and if he’s an adult and you do find yourself on a more intimate level with him, telling him this shouldnt interfere with his felings about you.