Jul
.. giving a guy head?
and like what are the symptoms?
I can't get tested, my parents would freak!!!!
So I was wondering if I could find out myself if I'm sick!
[It's been 3 months]
Answer:
Most STDs are transmitted through bodily fluid. Giving head puts you into contact with bodily fluid, even if he didn't ejactulate in you. If he’d any tiny open sores on his penis, blood (even in tiny amounts) would have been in contact with your mouth. Likewise, the pre-*** fluid often comes out long prior to ejaculation. There’s a 99% chance some of his bodily fluid entered you.
That means there’s the potential for you to contract ANY STD.
The good news is the liklihood is low from just one encounter, especially if it has been 3 months and you’ve zero symptoms.
First off, don't worry (too much) about HPV. More than 50% of the population has that, and it sometimes leads to genital warts which can come and go throughout your life. Other than a slightly elevated risk in women for cervical cancer, it is fairly benign compared to other STDs. You can treat, but not cure HPV.
Herpes is probably the most common STD and you would eventually see some open sores around your genitals. He would not necessarily have to have any open sores at the time of your encounter for him to have had herpes. You can treat, but not cure herpes.
AIDS of course is a slight risk too, but if he doesn't engage in high risk behavior (sharing needles or homosexual sex) the liklihood is low (and yes, people I know it's not strictly a gay disease, but statistics don't lie).
The other possible, but unlikely STDs would be clamidia and syphillis. Unfortunately syphillis can go without symptoms and be fatal (after a long period of time untreated).
To be safe, you really should get tested. I would imagine a place like Planned Parenthood or a local health clinic probably does that without needing parental consent.
However, as a parent, I have to state I would much rather one of my daughters come clean with me so I have the ability to help ensure her health, rather than hide a potentially life threatening disease just so I don't “freak”. Sometimes parents freak because they love you and care about you and are dissapointed they didn't do a better job of helping you make the right life choices. Obviously I don't know your parents, but if they love and care for you, then (after working through their anger & dissapointment, which is normal) they can help you.
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You’ve to get checked up. You cant just find out yourself hunny, you’ve to get checked up one way or another. You can get all sorts of STD's and some can be cure, but some cant be, and some are hard to cure if it's left untreated for long. Yes, i know about the parents thing, i had my first check up alone, on my own, and i made sure my parents didnt find out. You just have to either sneek in to the clinic, or tell the truth to your parents, i mean if you can give head (i dont mean to have a go but) if you can sneek out to give head, surely you can sneek out to go to the clinic? Trust me, just get checked up. And when you do, and find out the result, tell the boy or guy you gave a ******* to.
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You can get any of the that way. Oral sex is still sex.
Who cares if your parents “freak”. Your health is important and if left untreated STD's can cause many problems including being sterile, demensia, or death. So don't have any kind of sexual contact until you know. It's your responsibility to make sure you don't spread STD's if you have them.
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If you hadn’t had any symptoms for 3 months, you’re most likely in the clear.
By the way, Teenagers do NOT need parental consent to be treated for STD's in any state in the USA. You can seek medical attention without your parents knowing.
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whats a “head”
Answer:
no, and girl wh asked what head is…its a bl*wjob