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I am sure she was talking about herself. She was a college student, how could she be so ignorant? I think that the “friend” must have been her because I knew for a fact that she had sex with every male that we knew mutually.
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um, I hate to ruin your slut-0-meter, but you don't know that. You may suspect, but that is not fact. People that have a lot of sex regularly, use protection, and they're pretty careful and test regularly. It's the occasional sluts that are clueless. Ignorance is a CHOICE, which is why you can't fix stupid.
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First of all don’t judge her, after all you are her “friend” Second of all, she might be speaking about herself, remember that when speaking about STDs people become embarrassed and ashamed, this might be the case with her. She might feel the need to speak to someone about it but feels ashamed and so she says it is her friend. Thrid of all rememeber that this can happen to anybody.
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Are you having sex with this “friend”?
If you are - then you have a right to know…
If you’re NOT - then it's none of your business..
From what I'm hearing…she'd like to be “more than friends” and start a sexual relationship with you & is testing the waters to see how you'll react to her having herpes…
Yes, the “I have a friend” BS is kinda stupid, but you're talking about a young girl here.
Even if she's not having an outbreak - you have a 2% chance of catching herpes from her if you’ve sex with her…and a condom only covers your penis shaft and her inner vaginal walls - so if she has a sore or ITCH anywhere else on her genital area - you can still catch herpes with a condom on!
With that said…. if you care about her & want to have a relationship… go for it… if you just want a piece of a$$… don't unless you want to risk having to remember her forever - everytime you have a herpe sore…
Sorry to sound so negative about herpes - but you sound like you have very tiny respect for this girl & should NOT have sex with her anyways
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oh, you need to comfort her that many people are living with it. And most of them don’t know. At the beginning. you can advocate her go to some on the internet STD dating site for this crowd. “stdpal.com” is a good choice. One of my friend is here too
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one word, VALTREX.