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and we were iming and she sed she was pregnant then logged off befor i could say anything i dotn know wat to think we r emo and we love each other and stuff and we have tlked bout mairage and all that but wat should i think i am freakin out about this i think it would be cool to be a father and i dont intend to abil on her like some other person would i love her and i just dont know wat to think
the question is
wat should i think and how should i handel this
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ok well you need to meet her at her house and just hold her tight and tell her everthing is ok and you there as long as she needs you (as long as thats how you feel) she mostlikely just thought you wouldnt want to even talk to her anymore you have to tell her what she means to you and that it going to be ok (ONLY IF THATS HOW YOU REALLY FEEL)
dont listen to these jerks talking about spelling who cares how you spell you have more important problmes. they need to not critize
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You really need to make sure that it is your child she is carrying, do you really know her that well, and if it is, she will decide what she wants to do because it's her body, we supposedly don't have a say in the matter anymore.. and if it's all good then prepare yourself for fatherhood, it's pretty awesome. Soul searching is what you need to do, find out if this is what you really want, and are able to share it with the mother, it's a lifetime commitment and allot of hard work… but very rewarding… so ideal of luck to ya…
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dude u got my respect
all i can state is that i felt the same way that u did when my girl told me
but when i talked to her the next day all exited that i was cona be a dad she sed she was aborting
and i got sad but we moved on after that we're still together and are still madly in love
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First, learn how to spell.
Second, people still in middle school [[or have a mentality of a middle schooler]] shouldn't be having sex.
She probably lied to you for attention sense you guys are all “emo” and stuff.
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You should think about your capabilities to care for a child. Speak to her, make sure she sees a doctor, speak to an adult you trust. The internet isn’t a good place to get advice on life decisions. Find a social worker, counsellor, etc. good luck.
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Just relax and take it one step at a time…. get the test and all that…. If she is pregnant… it might be time to get married… if she isnt then everything is the same… the key is that you need to talk to her and find out the details and make good decisions fom then on
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I f you love her that much than try talk face to face with her. Since it is you and her the one making , unless you don't believe her .
I would advocate if you want the baby then go register if not the baby wont have a father.
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Talk to her face to face about it. It could be a ruse or she could have had to log off because someone interrupted her during your conversation. This really isn't something to talk about over the web.
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and where was the condom in all of this? if your not responsible enough to wear a condom (i don't like them either) you wont make a responsible parent.
is she playing you?
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she probably logged off because your typing is so bad.
Phone her and chat about it, ask her how she feels before saying what you think. She'll be so much more stressed about this than you.
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hum…….
1. Escape from home.
And then try to be found by the police.
Then your parents won't be mad at u anymore.
2. Abortion if you’re under 20.
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Spelling-much more important to learn.
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would be nice to read your question with reading as if I'm reading a text…sorry would like to have answer!
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yeah you should really learn to spell properly
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its not yours she just wants your money
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ur spelling sucks, dude get over ur self