Apr
well me and my girlfriend was having sex for our first time and had sex for a hour straight i used a condom but we tried to have sex couple of hours later and everytime i put on a condom i was limp then when i took it off i was hard tried again nope and i havent been hard since that and it was early saturday and now its late sunday and im always horny even my girlfriend agrees i told her my problem she wasnt mad she was asking why
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Way to go for using a condom. I think that with practice and a little patience from both of you your problem won't interfere with your being sexual. Sex can be very frustrating and not easy sometimes. The media makes it look so easy but it is a very complex human thing. You are new at this. Patience, love, support, and compassion go a long way for couples when it come to sex.
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I am not really sure what you are saying, but i think that what you try to say is that you only got an erection when you had not used the condom but when you tried the erection went off, is it right?, well, if this is what you mean, then there are actually two basic possibilities, the first one it that you get stressed when you use the condom, just a little too stress and this will go off with time ( i mean the fear ), the second possibility is that you could have some kind of allergy to the material of the condom, this is kind of normal, i mean, there are a lot of guys with this kind of problem, but mostly you will need medical help, because any kind of allergy might be dangerous. So, ask your doctor or school nurse.
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Maybe its the condoms, condoms arent exactly romantic. Try this. eat some strawberries, do what you usually do but make putting the condom on part of foreplay. your gf could do it, it need not be a quick slap it on. The extra touching while its going on could help.
Just relax, dont think too much, just focus on your pleasure & it should be alright
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what is your question?
oh, well it sounds like performance anxiety "stage freight". Dont worry about it, relax, try until it comes to you comfortably.
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Guy at work had a similar problem, after 2 kids he got a vasectomy because it just would not stay hard long enough to put the condom on.
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Because your so tired from having sex the first time try taking a break. And it sounds like your concentrating too hard on 'getting it up' So try thinking about somthing/someone that makes you get hard
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ok here ist one of 3 things
1 a sort of stage frieght
2 you got low on the seenmen / testosterone / whatever and your still filling your tank , so to speek
3 (the least likely) i dont know
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performance anxiety…
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maybe ask her for a handjob for a couple times before you try again
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u could hv erectile disfunction see a doctor
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call 1800 MENSDRS
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SO U CDNT REACH THE END OF IT
IT IS THE BEGINNING MAN
GETUP AGAIN
AND……….