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I want to have sex with a boy but am scared it will hurt. I’m a boy and want to know what I should use
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homosexuality is a sin and you shouldn't have sex with guys. The *** isn’t made for having a dick penetrate it.
If you do have homosexual sex, I hope it does injured, as a lesson to you.
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I've heard it hurts at first, but after a while that goes away and pure pleasure takes over. It should feel good especially since it is massaging your prostate which is stated to be the male g spot. You’ll have to use a lot of lube since the anus produces no lubrication you could use KY or some other lube you shouldn't Vaseline because it coats the anus and you could get infected, and make sure you use a condom.
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I've never tried it, and I’ve no urge at all too…But I would assume you'd need a lot of lubrication and the person initiating would have to be gentle. But I stress, A LOT OF LUBE!
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ask in the homosexuality and lesbiens section. im sure it was around here somewere. look around im sure you'll find it. im pretty sure someone over there can help you
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i had it with my cousin, it did injured a tiny but after a while it felt good
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no idea but i heard it hurts like hell..
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that’s just wrong to do
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Here's the deal on anal penetration.
Your anus has two sphincters about an inch apart. The outermost (the only one most people realize is there) is able to be readily influenced by your consciousness. Thus if you’ll it to rest it will. The inner one is on auto pilot.
Anal sex is *NOT* supposed to injured, but until both you and your partner are comfortable with your body it is likely that a tiny pain will be involved. There are two things you can do about the pain:
1) Launch a preemptive strike on the pain. Play with your anus. Insert a (well lubed) finger. If you don't have access to purchasing lubrication a nice thick coating of soap in the shower works well. Slowly ease it in. Work around, stretch yourself a tiny. This might feel awkward. After a while (a while being determined by each individual, but it could be in 5 minutes or it could be in 5 months) work another finger in there. Appreciate the stimulation. Keep doing this until you're able to work two to three fingers in there easily. That will prepare you for taking most men inside of you. If you’ve access to purchasing adult items, purchase some *good* lube (lube is one thing where you definitely get what you pay for) and a tapered dildo. That’ll help to prep you.
2) When your partner is working his way inside of you make sure he takes it *very very very very* slow. Make sure he’s responsive to your needs and your body. He should be able to read your level of anguish, pain, or pleasure. If he sees anguish in you (it will be written all over your face) he can stop his inward progression and dote on you, soothe you, tell you how wonderful it feels to be inside you, kiss you in sensitive places, just generally do anything he can think of to soothe you.
So, essentially, with a little prep and the right partner, at least the first time, it should be virutally pain free. The feeling is supposed to be breathtaking. Absolutely astounding. Make sure that you're ready for it though. You'll be anxious the first time so try to rest, do some breathing exercises if you know any, because the more tense you’re the more you're going to actively tighten your spincters the more pain it will cause you upon entry.
You might also find out that you don't enjoy anal penetration. I don't (except for very rare and specific circumstances), and there’s nothing wrong with that either. It just means you're a top.
Most importantly, listen to your body. If it doesn't feel right and you're pretty sure it isn't going to…STOP! Your body will always tell you what you want and what you need, as long as you listen to it.
Oh, and *ALWAYS* use a condom. The only time I would ever think about not using a condom is if there were positively completely no doubt or even questions in my mind that my partner and I are maintaining an exclusively monogamous relationship and we've been tested together. As far as lube….*NEVER* use KY or any other petroleum jelly. It causes friction and can damage the condom. There are some great brands out there like Swiss Navy, Astroglide, WET, Joe Lube, etc. I suggest silicone based, they seem to last much longer and require less to get the job done, but they have the ability to be costly (My current bottle was $54, but it was the largest one they’d and I've used it for about two months and you can hardly notice any is missing out of it). If there's any anguish after your partner has already penetrated you, add more lube and see if that helps.
So…now that you've had the long answer, the short answer is that I've given anal to men that have orgasmed without either of us ever touching their penis. If you're a bottom or even versatile, it is supposed to be earth shattering.